How a small decision can turn your life around

Updated: Dec 5, 2019

I will share a "small" decision I made in 2000 that did turn my life around. I was on a business trip on a neighbor island with 10 other co-workers. We really worked hard during the day, but in the evenings we were free to "relax". Some of us went to bed early, others met in a hotel nite spot. This was my choice and it allowed me an opportunity to get to know my co-workers better. Well, one thing lead to another and I ended up in a co-workers (opposite sex) hotel room and you can, yes!, you can imaging what happened. At the time I was 53 years old and had never allowed myself such choices. Yes, we went too far and this event lead later to a divorce from my wife of 28 years. If you have been here before yourself, I don't need to explain further. There was a lot guilt, disappointment, and some anger. Mostly, it resulted in a change of direction in my life - I was confused and frightened... What to do next? Counseling, see a priest, a shrink... I didn't have a clue. What would or did you do? It's been almost 20 years since this event in my life and I have been able to move on... But not without some help. Perhaps you can relate and perhaps we can talk - man to man, and find a way for you to move on. Aloha, Jay "Kai" Ogden, Wellness Coach Please Blog, Call or Make an online Appointment. PH:(808)888-3955 or 590-3592

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